Peace, nowadays has become a talk of the past glories and achievements. But when it comes to contemporary times, everyone thinks highly of himself or herself and greatly about their state or country. However, when it comes to extending support to the needy person or state or nation or when it comes to clearing the misunderstanding that can actually end up in a war-like situation, no one really has TIME.
Yes, you read it right! When it comes to leadership, his or her main responsibility is that people under his or her rule feel safe, secure, happy, and satisfied. But we live now in a materialistic world. So, when talks between India and Canada turned into a misunderstanding between the two nations, instead of clearing what was wrong or shouldn’t be spoken about, the media created more stories on things that may or may not have occurred just to reach the high TRPs or more revenue numbers online.
So, the other day I was talking to an aunt of mine whose son lives in Canada and is working in a top IT firm, she asked me why my tone is worried when asked if everything is going fine. I had obvious reasons for the kind of news information that was going on in my mind creating more worries and concerns for the well-being of Indians living in Canada and vice-versa, her statement kept my thoughts calm.
She said nothing that is written or spoken about is closer to the real-life situation, so please don’t break your heads on things that are just being created like a mountain out of a molehill. So, that’s when I realized that peace talks are so much more important in recent times. When it comes to solving conflicts, we really lack the time and energy to actually sit and discuss the situations rather than beating around the bush.
Say, for example, if you are hurt by a person, you should ensure to talk to that person and sort things out. You need to express your feelings and emotions in a way that doesn’t hurt the other person but in fact, reflects how hurt you are and how the errors of the other person are paining you. Instead of leveling up the allegations on the other person, you need to come up with peaceful talks that make the other person realize his mistake and work towards solutions.
But as we live in the era where time for fruitful activities is really not there, but posting anything that comes to mind becomes easier, we are away from establishing peace and wellness for everyone. Let’s take another example of an American rapper who has two partners and just doesn’t understand who is his true love. He keeps playing with both of them and vice-versa. This makes the love triangle more challenging to understand because of its open-ended nature.
So, from both the above situations, you will hopefully realize that when in conflict, make time for peace rather than running away from the situation or bitching about the person or situation to everyone. Negativity adds more negativity only. It takes one positive step established strongly just like setting up peace that will go a long way in creating a huge change in the world that we live in.