Perfectly Heartless
“Give heart to those who really care.”
Giving your heart to a person who doesn’t even value you is a completely idiotic way to degrade yourself. Wake up to the reality, people: Not everyone deserves your love. Your heart is precious, so think twice before giving it.
I admit that to be surrounded by love, you should love others, but don’t you think some people take it for granted? To protect your peace, become heartless for those people. Love those who deeply care about you, even those who love to see you grow.
People often wonder why this is happening to me. Why did they ghost me? If you are not getting attention from the person you love or someone you care about, then sorry to pin your bubble, but accept that you don’t even matter to them. People are not that busy; they don’t get time to text or call you.
Becoming heartless, in this context, doesn’t mean you are devoid of emotions or compassion; it means you are setting healthy boundaries and protecting your peace. It’s about prioritizing your mental well-being and not allowing others to exploit your kindness. Be ‘selfish’ if you need to; put yourself first. Don’t worry about what others might think; just be true to yourself. I know it’s not always easy, but accepting this reality can be empowering.Â
The more you accept this fact, the more mental peace you will have, and you all know how important mental peace is. I am not saying make your heart of stone and don’t talk to others, but at least don’t shower your love on those taking you for granted. Remember, prioritizing your mental peace is a form of self-care and crucial for your well-being.
Make your mind open to accepting the situation. I know it’s quite difficult, as we are human, and it takes time to recover from a situation, but trust me, if you open your mind and train your heart to accept the situation and move on from it, you won’t regret anything, even if you are proud of yourself. Accepting and moving on from a situation is a step towards a brighter future.
The more you immerse yourself in the situation and blame yourself. The more you find yourself stuck in the box where nothing is left. Even if you try hard. So, kick the box and see the world with the new glasses on.
It’s time to show the world who you are and what you’re worth. The more you believe in yourself, the more you’ll be able to shower love on those who truly appreciate you. Be ‘selfish’ if you need to, and become ‘heartless’ towards those who take you for granted. Remember, you are worthy of love and respect, and it’s crucial to surround yourself with people who recognize your worth.
