Thinking about the future and planning beforehand is a good way to be prepared to face the challenging and good times both.
However, overthinking about the future and worrying or hurrying is not at all a good idea.
Say for example, you are an aged person and you have a newly married daughter-in-law and son at your home and you keep thinking that why you are not becoming a grandparent and creating havoc in their lives with your worries, pressures and anxiety, then it’s not a good thing for you as well as them.
Not all children are same to understand elderly parents by stepping in their shoes. Some may feel threatened and insecured with the dominating and aggressive attitude towards them.
Some children may express their concerns straightforwardly while some may cry in their heart and resent about their relations with their parents and in-laws.
Similarly, if an employer is going through huge losses in his business and is expecting two employees to give him the work of 10 people then it is unfair. The stress levels and resentment between both employer and employees will increase, leading it into a strained relation and affecting business performance more.
Thus, if you you know someone who is hurrying and worrying unnecessarily and creating difficulties in other persons’ lives, then it is time to leave them alone and follow your path.
Follow your heart and do what you think is right. Because no matter what, every person’s journey of progress is different and unique and no one can change the process of Nature.
Things happen at the right time and the right place – the more you accept this fact, the more you will feel relaxed and enjoy the journey of Life.
By Sahana Iyer
