Gone are the days when we used to say that true relationships last despite all the roadblocks, failures, and mishaps. Now we live in the modern times wherein relationships are quite breakable due to any or several reasons. Moreover, romantic relationships are not as stronger nowadays as they were in olden times. If your partner has called you a person who lacks the emotions that he or she wants, then it is time to work on the emotional bonding of your relationship.
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So, how can you show your partner that they can rely upon you at an emotional level as well? Think about opening an emotional bank account with your partner. Because people are quite well-versed with calculations and understand things only when they are shared in a materialistic manner. Let’s consider your emotional bank account similar to your financial bank account.
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If you have positive interactions with your partner, then it means your emotional bank account has got a good credit point or balance. This increasing emotional bank account will help you feel safe and relaxed in your relationship with your partner. So, how many positive interactions do you think you need with your partner? Well, the ratio has to be 5:1, which means if you had 5 positive talks with your partner, there can be 1 not-so-great conversation that can be forgiven and forgotten by your partner.
What kind of conversations can be considered positive ones? The conversations where your partner and you feel that your emotional needs are being met. For example, if your partner comes back home with a headache after having a bad day at work, you need to be more understanding toward your partner’s state of mind rather than talking in an accusatory tone.
Your interactions should be transparent without having a hidden agenda in your mind. You both need to work on sharing your weaknesses, strengths, secrets, and feelings upfront rather than keeping everything hidden from your partner. The more you come out in the open about your feelings with your partner and even your partner expresses what he or she feels with you without any extra mirch-masala, you can be confident that you are in an honest and loyal relationship.
Give them a hug and kiss when they feel low. If your partner complains to you about how he or she feels when you are away and wants more time with you, then assure them you will figure out ways to be there with them whenever they need. You need not make fake promises, just assurance that you are there and will be there with her or him whenever they want in life will itself make them feel confident about the relationship. Emotions require a softer way of dealing with things.
Try being a friend rather than being a wife or husband all the time. There has to be more empathy and compassion in your relationship that will help you both understand each other’s viewpoints well even in dire situations.
