Your man may be quite anxious about living with you for lifelong. This insecurity may have several reasons but if you are neglecting or ignoring the symptoms for quite a long time, then you are giving him the way to quietly quit his relationship. Here are some ways to save your marriage or relationship without having to face dire consequences in the long run.
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1) He doesn’t fight with you when you taunt him:
Your man may have talked to you about how he feels when you mock him or taunt him for his shortcoming in the past. You both may also have faced conflicts that didn’t get resolved for a long time. But if you have been continuing the same habit and your man has changed in his response, then you need to figure out the “why”. If you mock him for his obesity and instead of fighting with you for stopping your behavior, your man doesn’t reply to you back with anything, then it seems he is losing interest in the relationship. He may not express the same but his silence will give you many signals that something is not going right in your man’s head.
2) If your man doesn’t cook or do any household chores with you:
There may be Sundays or holidays when your husband would be willingly trying to assist you with the household chores like cooking, cleaning and also buying vegetables or shopping with you. But of late, if your man has been avoiding all of the activities not because he is busy or sick, then there is something fishy. You need to know why he is no more excited to share with you the household responsibilities. What is stressing him out in his workplace or personal life is that he is going through a sudden change in his behavior. You can ask him directly or indirectly or tell him how children didn’t enjoy your food on the weekends because they are so used to having dinner or lunch made by their dad all these years.
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3) If your husband doesn’t get jealous anymore:
You may have talked about your office colleagues who are more dashing and handsome than your husband. His immediate reaction would be a jealous face wherein he would have tried to boost his abilities and looks more than his or your friends. But of late, if he is not trying to show that jealousy or even express his insecurity when you bring your office colleagues at home or talk to them at length on the phone, then it seems he has lost the spark in the relationship. He is no more getting the same feelings of losing you when you compare him with others. He is no more finding interest in being in your good books and craving your attention. These are the signs that your husband has lost it in the relationship and your marriage is in danger.
Communicating openly and sharing each other’s problems would bring back the romance in the relationship sooner or later. Keep trying and never give up no matter what because every love story is a gift from God and deserves a happy ending.
