Grief is something that cannot be constant or standardized. Everyone deals with sadness, hopelessness, loneliness, frustrations, and disappointments that are forms of grief in their own ways. The last two years of the coronavirus pandemic have been tough and challenging for everyone, right from the newborn baby to an elderly person who is counting his days. After all, at the societal level, we lost so many gems across all industries due to the complications and illnesses that came due to the effects of the coronavirus pandemic.
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On the personal level too, many people lost their near and dear ones due to the coronavirus pandemic or due to some old-age or unexpected illnesses shocking their life. I personally lost my aged father-in-law and a middle-aged aunt in the last two years, making me grieve for their loss and also dealing with their depressed relatives on a regular basis. It wasn’t easy at all to accept the fact that a person who was just smiling or laughing at our jokes last night is no more today. Such was the sudden demise that happened to people in an unexpected way.
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If you are someone who has lost your loved one during these testing and bad times, lose no hope as we have a lot of things to do in our life that will make those passed away souls happy and delighted. Here are some ways in which you can thank them and help them achieve peace in their souls.
1) Talk about all the good things that they have done so far:
When a person is no more, many religions believe in the concept of life after death in different ways. Some say that the person might have taken a rebirth at some other place, while some say that their souls keep looking at what their loved ones are doing and helping them, while some say that they go to God, while some say that they become angels or stars and continue their journeys in heaven. Whichever concept you believe in, is completely personal. Whenever you remember or talk about the passed away souls, think only about the good incidents.
2) Do their unfinished work if possible:
My father-in-law always wished good for his son who is my husband. He always taught me how I should take care of my husband the best way possible and that I take the work given to me as a blessing by my father-in-law. On the other hand, my aunt always cherished the moments when I interacted with her children who are my cousins, so I take that as a blessing to help and interact with my cousins as a friend and show them the guiding light when time needs. If you know that your loved one who recently passed away would have loved it if a particular thing would happen in their loved ones’ lives, go ahead and do it as a gift to them and gain more blessings to lead a better and happy life.
