Romantic relationships are challenging to form and even sustain in today’s times. Considering there is rising divorce or breakup rates due to infidelity and extra-marital affairs, on one hand, there is also a lack of trust to form new relationships among youngsters for the first time on the other side. If you have been looking for a life partner for a longer period and have found someone online or through acquaintances a person with whom you plan to go on a first date, here are some tips.
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1) Make your “date” feel welcome:
Whether you plan to meet her in a coffee shop or a park or a restaurant or a public place, make sure you smile when you meet them and also make them feel that you were eagerly waiting for them. Don’t show your anger or irritation if they turn out to reach the fixed venue quite or a lot late. You can be concerned about the reasons that made them reach late and encourage them to manage their time on the next date if that will happen.
2) Be ready to pay the bill:
In the times of women empowerment and gender equality, it is quite noticed that women also are willing to share the food bills during the dating times. However, if you are a true gentleman, express your willingness to pay the bill as it will make her feel good and make you get into the good books.
3) Share your thoughts as it is:
It doesn’t mean you speak rubbish about the current political or pandemic times, bring about your past relationship with a woman who cheated on you, or talk about how couples are after money only in this materialistic world. You can avoid those sensitive and worldly topics and consider sharing what you think about your different areas of life as it comes naturally to you. No filters are to be added when it comes to your financial life, so if you have a huge loan to repay due to ABC reasons or you don’t plan to take up a job and get into business, be open and transparent about such important matters of your life.
4) Encourage them to share their views:
If your “date” is an introverted or shy type and is observing only you when you are talking about the world and your life, stop for a while. You can motivate them by asking what they think about the food that is served or their views on professional and personal life matters. Don’t say or ask anything extreme as it may put her off and give a wrong impression about your nature and behavior in general.
5) Be specific about what you want to know:
If you are really looking for answers like does she like you, would you both meet again for the next date, is there a possibility to enter into a romantic relationship or roam around with “just friends” tag, ask questions that you need answers. Do not cross-question or play with your words, just be straightforward and humble at the same time. All the best for your first date and hope you get the true love of your life!
