Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional abuse in which the person who is abusing mentally and emotionally shows as if he or she has done nothing and is completely perfect. If you have gone through narcissistic abuse, then you will relate to the below examples very easily. Narrating the incidents of a person who went through Narcissistic abuse in her office and also at her in-laws’ place.
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Rita was a go-getter and always aimed for good things in her life. When she joined a startup, she was unaware that her only boss would subject her to Narcissistic abuse throughout the term she was at work. She would be narrated with examples of high-achieving leaders and paid peanuts in exchange for all the 12-14 working hours that she slogged for the company. When Rita would ask for sick leave, she would get calls from her boss that the company’s clients need her to be reporting to the workplace no matter what.
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Her boss would sweet talk with her whenever she would raise some issues or complaints at work. He would give her a larger picture of becoming the CEO of the company in the meetings but when she is actually doing the work, she would be demeaned and compared for no reason. She would cry in person whenever she would work hard to achieve the targets, but her boss would never be impressed and would always expect her to work more.
Her boss’ Narcissistic abuse reached a higher extent when Rita single-handedly organized three events and after the events’ completion, her boss would hurl abuses at her in the meetings with other co-workers. Rita’s boss was known to have two faces where he would sweet talk Rita whenever she would feel like giving up on work. He would show her better compensation and bigger titles and also give examples of women’s empowerment only later to be realized that all that he did was just so that Rita wouldn’t resign from the workplace and keep working like a donkey.
Rita faced a similar experience when she got married in an arranged set-up. Rita found similar Narcissistic abusive traits in her mother-in-law who would expect her to do a full-time job in a big company so that she can lead a luxurious life in her old age and also hurl abuse when she returns from the workplace to do the household chores. Rita’s mother-in-law was cunning, extremely extroverted, and would dominate Rita and her husband’s lives in every decision that they make and do.
Whenever Rita’s parents came home to meet their girl, her mother-in-law would sweet talk them and tell them how perfect a mother-in-law she is. She would narrate examples of how they take care of Rita during her ill days and thus, Rita would have no voice to object to her statements because her mother-in-law would isolate her from her husband for being honest about the politics that is happening in her family life. Eventually, Rita decided to quit both the Narcissistic abuses that she was facing at her workplace and at her in-laws only to lead an independent and emotionally stable life.
