We live in uncertain times, so it is no wonder that when Dhanush and Aishwaryaa decided to divorce each other after 18 years of marriage, and when Samantha Ruth Prabhu and Naga Chaitanya parted ways so soon after marriage, your feelings of nervousness and anxiety come naturally. You are a woman after all is what your inner self would keep telling you. What if your partner leaves you after whatever number of years of being together with each other?
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What if he starts liking someone else and what if he says he is no more keen to make the relationship official, forget even about taking marital vows in front of society?! So, when such thoughts start bothering you and makes you irrational, it is time to sit down and start breathing in a relaxed manner. Remember nothing is permanent but when you are serious about your boyfriend or partner and want to showcase the reception lehenga on your social media handles then you have to put effort into the same as well.
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You need to ask your boyfriend in a good meeting between only you both where you first NOT discuss your worries but about your future goals and ambition in life. Everyone wants to feel secure and enjoy bliss in life. So, you need to make him realize that he has become that important part of your life for whom you have many interesting plans in the future. You need to start with casual conversations rather than jumping with a gun to get married.
You need to share how you would feel when you share the good news about your relationship with him with your social circle and how you have some good plans for the future of both of you. Do not go with a mindset that he will deny or reject your ideas because negative thinking never works. When you are in a relationship, there is no prestige or ego issue that you need to take care of because love dissolves all the I inside you to make it WE.
You need to come out of the comfort zone slightly to convince him to look at your brighter future and even his if the things between you both are made official to the world. If he is a shy type or wants time to think, then allow him the same because anything did half-heartedly never works for anyone’s benefit. So, let time take the charge of your relationship if your partner is a little unsure about whether he wants you or not. However, do not give up or lose hope. Understand him as much as possible and that is what LOVE is all about.
Loving is as simple a journey as it could be only if you understood the real meaning of the same. Do not confuse your LOVE with rejections or unrequited love if the answer comes as NO. See you always should be able to think positively in every situation or opportunity that you are into. Just wish him well and take your time to MOVE on rather than keep stuck.
