Physical intimacy is a huge thing to handle if your partner is quite reserved and shy. You cannot expect things to change overnight and thus, your ideas to impress her has to be on a consistent basis. Your interest in physical intimacy should also spark a desire inside her as it cannot be a one-way process.
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You have to be more or less concerned about her reactions rather than whether your plan will work or not. You can cite examples of your friends who take their partners to different places for an overnight stay or short breaks in local or foreign locations away from their daily routine. This will give her an idea that you are not just limiting your relationship to kisses and hugs but more than that.
You cannot be blunt and frank when it comes to sensitive topics like these that talk about a woman’s interest and consent to get physically intimate with you. If your relationship is older than a year, then at least you can trust your rapport and the conversations that you have exchanged all these months about your likes and dislikes.
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If your relationship is new and you both belong to conservative families, then don’t push hard to get a YES immediately but allow each other to take that time to explore intimacy. For first-timers who are interested to have sexual intercourse with their partners, it is advisable to do a little bit of research online on what is safe and what is not before jumping onto the bed and satisfying your passionate cravings.
Remember the place where you plan to have your sexual intercourse should be a good one and not a cheap public lodge as it is unsafe in terms of hygiene and reputation too. Don’t worry, you are doing no wrong in sharing the love for each before marriage but understand when things get weird, it really affects your girl more than you. So, make sure you make her feel safe by taking her to a friend’s farmhouse (if any) or a good hotel where you can stay and enjoy each other’s company not just on the bed but even cuisines and natural places to see.
You can use different ways of letting her know that you want to consummate the relationship by sharing how much you love her and how important she has become in your life. You can even show her the roadway ahead so that she feels committed and secured in the relationship and doesn’t misunderstand you to be a one-night stand person.
To gain the required trust from a woman is a huge task but once you have acquired the same, you have won the world. You need to keep a balance between reality and your dreams as well. So, even if you don’t get a bathtub in your hotel room to enjoy with her, do not freak out in front of her and instead, express your genuine feelings of how you would like your honeymoon to have all the arrangements done in a grand manner. Remember you want her badly and it is your genuine feelings that will only make her give you a YES for physical intimacy.
