When you just have to SHUT UP and WAIT in your life

LifestyleWhen you just have to SHUT UP and WAIT in your life

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When life puts you through challenging situations, you have to just SHUT UP and WAIT. But that doesn’t come easy as people usually have the habit to worry and start imagining worst-case scenarios. To take a pause from life’s processes is not just easy and too hard to handle. However, it comes when we learn the skill to have patience and keep our mouths SHUT. There was a woman who kept blabbering about all that happened in her past when she got married in the initial years of her married life to her new daughter-in-law.

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There was an incident where the daughter-in-law had to scream at the top of her voice and tell them all to shut up and keep silent. When this stand was taken by the daughter-in-law, she was mocked by her in-laws as having hysteria and mental health issues. Now, what would the poor young girl do she ran to her parents’ place and stayed there for some months. But she was not left alone there too and instead sent a divorce notice by her in-laws on her husband’s behalf.

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This young woman found her husband to be too immature and reckless when it came to take important decisions in his personal life. However, she didn’t hurry but simply worried. Instead of taking the legal matter to court, she decided to wait for a few more months and help her husband deal with the sadness and hopelessness that he had developed over the years. She took spirituality and religious matters quite seriously and started writing Ramakoti books.

Well, this developed a sense of calmness inside her and when she again went to her in-laws’ place to live with them she didn’t tell them how wrong they are in their approach and how right she is in her thinking. Instead, she just kept mum and laughed at all their non-sense tactics and behaviors. She considered their ill behavior towards her as something that children would do with ignorance and tolerated them all with grace.

Now many would argue why she had to tolerate the shit when she can just move on, but she had this clarity that she would design a beautiful life living with all the limitations and uncertain situations that she will have to face in her marital life. She used every challenge as an opportunity and called her parents to tell them how she is doing well. Although her parents were never satisfied with her marital life progress, she just looked only at the positives that she was doing with her potential and ignored the negative energies.

Eventually, she was blessed with a good marital and personal life and also attained professional success in the due course of time. The reason her story sounds like a good one is because she didn’t take any haste decisions when things were too bad for her. Instead, she took patience lessons and also trained her mind to look at only the positive things that are happening in her life to designing a beautiful future.

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