I am going through a rough phase in my life for many many years, let me be really honest with you. I get into isolation phases for few months every alternate year as I don’t feel happy or satisfied with the way life functions. Earlier when I started my career, my problem was the work timings, workload, and low salary. When I got a job with a good salary, yet I was not happy with it and quit it. Then when I got married, I thought all my problems have come to an end but after 3 years too, I felt something is missing in my life and not up to the mark.
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Well, it is society’s mentality that married women should become mothers soon after marriage so that they don’t feel more lonely and are engaged with homemaker duties. But in my case, we are not thinking on those lines and both of us want to focus on our careers after how the pandemic made us incur losses at a financial and emotional level.
People are usually dissatisfied with their lives and I found this after I shared my life’s problems with all my relatives and friends. I found out everyone I talked to is already into an unspoken struggle in life that they are not taking it as seriously as I do, please note my highly emotional thinking makes me so vulnerable to handling problems of life.
So, I decided to have a question to answer to myself in the midst of all the surroundings and that is “what is it that I want from my life?”. I counted it for the next 5 years, then 10 years then 20 years, and then 30 years. But I couldn’t go beyond this because life really has no guarantee or warranty and we never know how our days have been counted already by then Yamraj. Jokes apart, I realized that all I want is to be happy and satisfied with what I am doing now, tomorrow, and in the future and I am okay if, in certain situations, I am asked to change my behavior or attitude for the betterment of myself and others.
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What about you? What do you think is it that you want from your life and how do you plan to achieve the same?
