Who likes problems? Well, honestly no one! Everyone likes to live a happy and satisfying life. But we face problems every now and then that make us more disappointed and vulnerable in life. We are not born leaders and neither are we trained in any army school since childhood to not have emotions at all. After all, we all are pure souls who are struggling with various phases in our personal and professional lives. The society where we live makes us the way we are now. So, if we are someone who knows to only criticize and not look at any good thing in life, it is because of the kind of people who entered our life and abused us mentally or emotionally to become the way we are now.
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So, if we get upset when the electricity gets cut due to mild rains, we as a common man start accusing the electricity people of doing their work. We get disturbed when the cableman cuts our cable for a few hours, especially when we are supposed to watch our favorite series or movie. We also get irritated when the newspaperman doesn’t come on time to deliver our daily newspaper. We get angrier at the kachrawala if he doesn’t take our garbage kept outside our home.
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These are small issues of daily life that actually look like major problems for people who sit idle or stay at home for longer durations in their lives. Now if we look at a professional person’s life, he may be finding his team members’ behavior towards him as a major problem because they fail to report to him on time, they also fail to deliver the work on time. He gets humiliated by his boss and those cuss words remain with him for his life because after all, he gets paid for doing his job, which also includes the tantrums that his boss may throw at him if the projects remain incomplete.
So, if you are someone who relates to the above story, you will agree with the fact that this is a common man’s story who is juggling various responsibilities in his life while he works hard to fulfill the needs of his family and save a little for his life after retirement. If you have been thinking that these things are your “PROBLEMS” then let me tell you that this is every Indian problem who belongs to low-income and middle-income groups.
You would feel like showing up your frustrations to someone and may end up even verbally abusing your friend or partner in the process. But there is something that you need to learn to come out of this vicious circle and that is, being grateful. If you consider these petty issues or common problems as just a part of your life’s journey and focus on the bigger picture on a daily basis, you will feel less hurt and demotivated in life. You can even come out by writing a gratitude journal where you will count all the blessings in your life on a daily basis and train your mind to be hopeful rather than panicked all the time. Consider doing it and I am sure accepting your life as it is will surely bring about a huge change in your life.
