Everyone is facing some or the other form of problems in their lives. This pandemic has literally put everyone’s lives to a standstill. The fact is we have changed internally and externally as well and the effect of the same is bound to have on our personal and professional relations.
So, in case you are someone who is just frustrated with your job or even your spouse, just chill! You are not alone as there are millions who are struggling to keep up the same charm and magic in their personal and professional lives like in the pre-pandemic era but are unable to because the coronavirus pandemic has led to a decline in the mental strength of many people worldwide.
In case you observe that you have been fighting with your partner quite often of late, it means there is something wrong going in your individual and couple life that is leaving a negative impact on your mental health. This is causing a rift in your thoughts and you are just unable to get the needed solution for your marital conflicts.
So, slowing down is the best option to ensure that your marriage doesn’t lead to divorce because things have changed a lot in the world and we still cannot live by the same beliefs as when you started off your relationship with your partner. So, if you are someone who married for economical reasons with your partner, then that is a different topic altogether to be worked upon. But come the 21st century and most people marry these days for love purpose as their own education and job help them to have a living.
Love is a natural feeling and cannot be man-made irrespective of how much ever one reads romantic novels or watches Shah Rukh or Salman Khan movies. Romance is a feeling of attraction between both the partners that have to evolve over a period of time and please read: NATURALLY only. One cannot force the other as marriage is a beautiful relationship and not a pressure cooker.
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Slow down, if you have another home, you can go and stay there for a change. You can also go to your parent’s home for a week or a month or many months to help your partner live alone and see. Things do evolve and change over a course of time and you married the other to grow together and not to destroy your lives together.
