If you miss your ex very badly and want to reconcile and get back together, remember the decision should be mutual and not very emotional. Because when we get emotional, we lose the rationality that allows us to take decisions rightly and not hastily. After all, you both decided to part ways due to some reasons, which need to be worked upon mutually and happily. If you want to build a healthy relationship with your ex and want to reunite with him or her, here are some amazing tips.
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1) Know how you want to make it work this time. Remember that are past hurts that are still quite fresh in the minds of your ex, which may not die down anytime sooner. So, you need to talk about each thing that happened to you in the past wrongly and made you appear as the vamp or villain of the relationship. If you think your partner had hit the wrong notes in your relationship, then express the same without hurting him or her further. Acknowledging your past as it is without being judgmental will help you move further happily and come closer.
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2) Honor your partner’s views and do not criticize the same. If your partner thinks saving money in a PPF account is better than opening a fixed deposit in a joint account bank then go for it. There is nothing that is not mutually beneficial for you both and you will have to accept his ways of growing money for your and the family’s betterment. You need to give him the space for his viewpoint to work or fail and at the same, he also should give you the thinking space.
3) Share how painful it was when you both parted ways. It is obvious you want to move on from your past hurts but discussing what role your partner played in your life can help him or her understand your pain and challenges as well. You can share with him or her how you want to take responsibility and address the relationship problems in a different way in your life.
4) Share what you like about your partner and what quality needs improvement. If your partner is really caring by nature and wants you to take care of yourself always, you need to thank them for being so affectionate towards your health and betterment. If your partner doesn’t keep his space clean and has the habit to postpone good things in life, you can simply share how to transform the negative habit as it is affecting you and the relationship both.
In a nutshell, I will tell you that it is not going to be easy to start living again with your ex. But you both need to work together to achieve your couple goals. Also, you need to accept the fact of life that no person is fully perfect and is bound to make errors. So, when you broaden your vision and mission in your life, you will be able to see the magic called LOVE again in your life.
