Bold content or erotic movies or videos are all over the internet, OTT platforms, movies, and even television serials nowadays. The transition to technology in recent times has made bold content more accessible to viewers of all age groups. Gone are the days when only a particular set of producers used bold or erotic content in their movies to attract audiences. Nowadays, even a family movie has a couple of scenes that you really cannot watch with your entire family while at home or in the theatres.
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Considering many actresses or actors in India in recent years are quite okay to sign up for bold content, there are many erotic scenes that can up the sex factor and make you even get addicted to watching such content online. Watching sex scenes with your partner is okay if it is done at a moderate level. However, if your partner keeps insisting you watch or considers watching such extremely romantic and bold scenes every night because of some sort of addiction, you need to step in to stop the act.
1) Discuss with your partner what triggers them:
Identify the triggers that can be at the visual or emotional level that is making your partner keep watching the kissing and sex scenes on their laptop or mobile over and over again. Find out how you can distract their viewing time by discussing certain other things that may keep them in a better mood.
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2) If your partner doesn’t listen to you:
In case your partner has got an addiction so strong that he wouldn’t listen to your talks and would insist on watching bold content in his free time, then it is time to tell him the adverse effects of the same on your relationship. You can be stubborn and even tell your partner that you would be less physically intimate with them if they continue the act just for the sake of pleasure or fun.
3) Take up physical intimacy in real:
If your husband or partner wants to watch bold content because you both are not doing anything that makes him feel sensual or excited at night, you can make efforts to relive your sex life all over again. You can dress in such a manner that will seduce or attract him or her to you. Your partner needs to know that addictions are not good and the more efforts you put to bring him back to a normal life, the good it will be for the future of you both.
4) Console your partner:
If your partner has been missing those sexy kisses and romantic touches from you for a longer period, it is time to give him that tight hug. You can even soothe him by giving him a body massage or holding his hands and giving him a romantic expression. This will keep him distracted for the time and reduce his screen-watching time for bold content.
5) Talk to a sex therapist:
If things are going out of your control, wherein your partner just avoids you completely, so that he could sit with the bold content and watch it again and again, then it is the right time to involve a sex therapist. This will put things in perspective and help your partner come out of the situation in a gradual manner.
