Tips for having sizzling phone sex with your partner

In today's times, phone sex also includes sensual messages sent on mobile, WhatsApp, or any other app where you and your partner chat for a long time.
 
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Phone sex is all about talking or sharing or involving yourself and your partner in sexual acts or sexual dreams over the mobile phone or telephone. Phone sex is like you can share anything that is erotic in nature through your audio call or through a video message or call. For example, if you install Zoom or Google Duo or WhatsApp on your phone and video call your partner and talk about all that is sexual in nature, then you are indulging in nothing but purely phone sex. In today's times, phone sex also includes sensual messages sent on mobile, WhatsApp, or any other app where you and your partner chat for a long time.

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If you want to have consent to initiate phone sex with your partner, you need their consent. Any sexual behavior or activity or thought can be fulfilled by one person alone and needs the other one too. So, for the couple to enjoy phone sex, it needs to be with the wholehearted permission of both the parties. Say, for example, you sent your partner an emoji that is kissing and hugging, and in return, you don't get the same reaction or a better emoji, then your partner is not interested in sex chat for the moment. Once you get their consent, then only you can make the phone sex chat sensual and desirable for each other.

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Even if you may think that you are not doing anything physical with your partner, then also consent is a must even if it is just phone sex. You can start the conversation with a message or a sentence that clearly mentions what is going on in your wicked mind when you look at your partner. You can start with, "I am so much in love with you that I am thinking of having phone sex with you my darling. Would you like to try it out?" 

If you got the consent, then you can start with the common question that is most asked by couples "What are you wearing right now?" If your partner is not in the mood, he or she may shut down the question by saying "I am wearing clothes or saree or dress or T-shirt, etc". You can simply encourage them to share the color of their dress and express the meaning of the color by sharing what you would have done with that clothes or dress if you wear near your partner right away.

Add some laughter in between your questions and answers so that there is no sexual tension between both of you. You need to be yourself and not some of the characters that are shown in the web series or television or movies. Just be realistic and share what you really to do if your partner is sitting just beside you at the moment. Please understand that whatever you share with your partner about how you are feeling when you talk to him or her has to be confidential. Phone sex can really help you build a long-lasting relationship if you do it the right way.