Signs your partner is destroying your relationship

If your partner says that he will stay at his colleague's home or at the office itself, without giving you any specific reason, then something is cooking in his mind.
 
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If your partner has been hiding a lot of things from you in recent times, then it is time to take charge of your relationship. If your partner doesn't want to sleep with you, doesn't talk to you at all, doesn't want to see you, and turns face as soon as you invade his private space, then you need to figure out what is happening and what is wrong happening in your relationship. 

Why you should be there for your partner emotionally as well?

1) He doesn't come from office to home directly:

If your partner says that he will stay at his colleague's home or at the office itself, without giving you any specific reason, then something is cooking in his mind. If he doesn't come to you and mention what is happening in his office life, then you need to be beware. 

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2) He hides the last financial transactions:

If your partner doesn't reveal the reasons for withdrawing huge amounts of money without giving you any specific reason, then you are in major trouble. Even when you question his behavior and get no proper answers, then he is really off from you to destroy whatever you have built together.

3) He cheats on you by going on dates with girls:

If your partner has been dating other girls in his life, then it is time to speak up. If you don't get the real answers despite asking the reasons he is cheating on you, then you both need to sit and discuss what is going on in your marital life. 

4) He allows you to keep imagining:

When you do a confrontation with your partner and he neither justifies nor gives any sort of clarification to your guesses and thinking, then I am sure he has lost interest in the marital relationship. Either he wants to get rid of you or make you so frustrated that you call it quits surely.

5) He tells his parents all nasty things about you:

If you have been living separately or together, if your partner keeps bitching and gossiping about you and your personality to his parents, then understand that he is no longer the one whom you loved or shared a bond with. There are several reasons why he is behaving so oddly with you but without knowing any valid reasons, you cannot call it quits.

If your partner has been looking for ways to cut the conversations with you and keeps you in dark, then it is time to speak with his and your parents and bring them under the conversations. If he is still hostile to all your efforts to understand why he is ruining your marital life, then you really need to pack your bags and stay at your parents' home. You need not worry about what society will think and lead a bad marital life. Your decisions need to be for the benefit of your well-being and your life and not of others. If your partner truly loved you and is behaving crazily due to some health issues, then figure out it and solve it rather than putting up a toxic relationship.