Love and Care are "Feels" and not "Deals"
You make business deals, avail shopping deals, and also use the word "Deals" when it comes to attaining materialistic stuff. But when it comes to love and care, it is something that comes naturally to any human being who is alive on this planet earth. Yes, humans are actually born to give and share their love and care with others. But with the growing materialism in the world, selfishness and self-centric thinking are at their peak. Every other day when you open the newspapers or websites and read the top headlines of how people are getting cheated, killed, and put in bars for various wrong reasons.
So, is that the 21st century that we thought would be the biggest change to make this world a better place to live in? I was walking on the road where a new shopping mall was open and a child was trying to take their parents to go inside the shopping mall. When the parents said they are not interested to buy any new stuff, the child immediately threw tantrums and reminded their parents of how they had promised if the child would study well, they would buy anything that the child demands from them.
It's not just the shopping malls but nowadays children are too attracted to online shopping as well. They are quite sharp and very fast-forward when it comes to using digital devices. I was surprised when my cousin told me that his 5 years old kid had ordered an electronic cycle from Amazon all on his own through my cousin's account. My cousin was shocked to pay the price of the cycle as the option was cash on delivery.
In this advancing technology life, do we really think that kids should be introduced to only materialistic happiness and given deals to perform well in schools, and stay disciplined in real life, among others? Why can't we reintroduce the days when parents and children had only love and care as they feels in their lives? Why can't we take kids to places where they learn the importance of love and care more than anything else?
Yes, education is important, health is vital and more or else, social life these days is one of the priorities. But knowing the importance of real relationships is more vital than anything else. You may have hundreds of friends but when it comes to sharing your deeper secrets and experiences of life, you just need two or four people who can listen to your words but yet feel the emotions. They have to be there for you not just to cheer you in the good times but also in the worst times when you feel helpless despite being rich or educated or healthy.
This is the most important thing to achieve in your life. So, if you have parents or children or loved ones who are there to care for or love you, please feel grateful for their presence in your life rather than counting the money that is lost from your bank accounts. You will note the difference in your life when you shift your thinking.