Success doesn’t have a common definition. People define success based on what they want to do in life. Success in one sphere and all areas depends on person to person. If a person defines his success in life only by fixing a goal of becoming the CEO of a company, then his entire lifespan revolves around achieving the goal. If a person defines success in life thinking that he will feel he is successful only if he has achieved balance in all areas of life, then it is his goal. Success definitions and goals vary from person to person.
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If you want to achieve success in all walks of life, you need to keep your goals SMART – specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound. So, if you feel you want to top in an exam, then your preparation time should be fixed, and your rank to achieve should be measurable and even achievable to you. The exam should be relevant to your career decision and thus, the top ranking should help you get that dream job that you had been waiting for for so long.
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If you want to achieve success in the sphere of personal relationships, you need to first understand how well you gel with people. If you are happy with only two friends who are always supportive and willing to understand you no matter how bad the situation turns against you, your goal should be to search for such meaningful friends.
Whatever your life’s goals are, make sure you plan them well in advance and keep doing your research work well. Give time and space to yourself to achieve your goals. It shouldn’t look like a rat race and there should be enough space for you to think and appreciate even your small wins. Remove the obstacles and distractions from the path of your goals. If your goal is to reduce your weight, avoid reading or watching magazines that promote junk foods.
Be honest with yourself as much as you can. Never lie to yourself just to make yourself feel better. Never get down from your expectations of yourself but be realistic. If you cannot earn INR 50,000 per month if your current salary is less than INR 25,000 per month, then fix your ambitions accordingly. You can plan to set small and simple goals rather than making them challenging for you.
Stay committed to your small goals and be optimistic. Do not give up if you cannot achieve your first or second task at hand as there is a long way to go. Even if you miss your set timelines, it is okay. But be consistent and keep working towards your goals with full focus. Have fun along with the journey of the accomplishment of your goal. It should be emotionally rewarding as well. You should pamper yourself with small gifts and treats whenever you are happily winning some of your goals before time.
Be passionate about your life’s goals because it is your energy and inspiration that will constantly drive you towards getting what you want in your life. Stay ahead and keep walking your path. All the best!
