Well, we live in a world that is full of problems and challenges. Thanks to the growing complexities in the globe, new technological innovations, new forms of violence, and new forms of stressors that are making the world of humans a threat to themselves. Well apart from these worldly things, what you need to be worried about is also your physical and mental health as well as that of your partner.
Believe it or not! But if your partner is not liking you and is always full of complaints about your views, ideas, decisions, and the way things are moving in your relationship, then it is a clear sign that your partner is thoroughly stressed with you, it may or may not be because of you. But you need to take that first step to address the issue with him and take professional help if things are going out of control.
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Now when it comes to taking appreciation when your partner succeeds in his job, it comes very naturally to you to take the required credit. But when it comes to accepting criticism or responsibility for the failure or setbacks in your relationship as well, you need to take that first step whether you like it or not. You need not bend on his knees and plead for saving your relationship. All you need to do is accept the criticism as it comes without making any judgments and also take a break when you require.
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Taking a break for your mental health is not wrong but ensure that while you take that break, you are taking the utmost care of your body and mind to accept things as they are. You can consult your partner’s friends to get a few facts from his past and how things turned out to be and the reasons for him being the current HIM now. You need to be objective in finding out possible solutions which also takes care of your well-being.
Remember nothing in this world is accomplished without putting any effort, the same way your love life needs work if you think that the journey is always full of problems and roadblocks every now and then. You can even discuss with your partner how his STRESS levels are bothering you in all your aspects of life. You can talk it out from your heart and even figure out possible ways to come out of your current situation. Remember every situation is temporary, whether good or bad.
You can consider taking professional help from a marriage counsellor with whom you can share all your heart out and ask him or her to give you suggestions in improving your relationship goals. You can take help from a friend or elderly family member who understands that such stuff is part and parcel of marital life. You can even take a vacation together or visit a religious place that gives the required peace of mind to both of you and your families. It is okay to err as humans but it is not okay to not work on your problems and get solutions.
